Social Media Tips & Strategies

Learn How to Sell on Social Media

By Spencer Lanoue
October 31, 2025

Selling on social media isn't about pushing your products in every post. It's the art of turning casual scrollers into genuine fans, and fans into loyal customers, by building a brand people trust and want to support. This guide will walk you through the entire process, sharing actionable steps to help you build relationships, provide value, and drive sales without feeling pushy.

First Things First: Shift Your Mindset from Selling to Serving

The fastest way to fail at social commerce is to treat your feed like a digital billboard. People don't open Instagram or TikTok to be bombarded with ads, they're there for entertainment, connection, and inspiration. If every post is a "BUY NOW!" message, you'll see follows drop and engagement plummet. Your primary job on social media is not to sell - it's to serve.

This means pivoting your focus from what you want to sell to what your audience needs to hear. Before you can ask for the sale, you have to earn the right to ask. You do this by consistently offering value, building trust, and establishing yourself as a helpful, authentic voice in your niche.

Choose the Right Platforms

Don't try to be everywhere at once. The "best" platform to sell on is the one where your ideal customers are already spending their time. Think about the demographics and the type of content that performs best on each one:

  • Instagram: Ideal for visual-heavy brands in fashion, beauty, food, and home decor. Reels, Stories, and highly aesthetic feed posts are king here.
  • TikTok: Perfect for reaching Gen Z and millennials with short, trend-driven, entertaining videos. Authenticity and creativity outperform polished ads.
  • Facebook: Strong for reaching a broader, older demographic. Great for community building through Groups and for running highly targeted advertising campaigns.
  • Pinterest: A visual discovery engine where users are actively looking for inspiration and products. Ideal for businesses in DIY, wedding, recipes, home goods, and fashion.
  • LinkedIn: The go-to for B2B sales. The focus here is on professional value, industry insights, and building your authority through thoughtful articles and case studies.
  • X (formerly Twitter): Great for real-time updates, joining trending conversations, and customer service. It rewards witty, concise content and direct engagement.

Start with one or two platforms where you know your audience lives. Master them before expanding your efforts elsewhere. It's better to be a respected voice on one channel than a faint whisper on five.

Build a Brand People Go Out of Their Way to Follow

Once you know where you're posting, you need a content strategy that makes your profile a destination, not just a pit stop. The goal is to create a feed that's so valuable or entertaining that people follow you even if they aren't ready to buy today. This is accomplished through value-first content.

The 80/20 Rule of Social Content

A great rule of thumb is the 80/20 rule. This means 80% of your content should be dedicated to serving your audience - educating, entertaining, or inspiring them - while only 20% should be directly promotional. That 80% is where you build the relationship. The 20% is where you monetize it.

What does "value-first" content look like in practice?

  • Educational Content: Teach your audience something useful. A skincare brand could create Reels about the correct order to apply products. A financial advisor could share bite-sized budgeting tips on X. A coffee roaster could do a tutorial on different brewing methods.
  • Entertaining Content: Make them laugh or feel something. This could be hopping on a funny TikTok trend that relates to your industry, sharing a relatable meme, or posting a beautiful time-lapse video.
  • Behind-the-Scenes (BTS) Access: People connect with people, not logos. Show the human side of your brand. Share videos of your product being made, introduce your team members in an Instagram Story, or talk about a challenge you overcame.
  • User-Generated Content (UGC): Showcase your customers using and loving your products. Resharing their photos, reviews, and videos is powerful social proof. It says, "Don't just take our word for it, look at all these happy people."

Stop Talking at Your Audience, Start Talking with Them

Social media is a two-way conversation. Posting great content and then disappearing is like setting up a beautiful storefront but keeping the doors locked. The magic - and the sales - happen in the interactions.

Practice Social Listening

Pay attention to what people are saying, not just on your posts, but across the platform. Set up searches for keywords related to your industry, brand, and even competitors. What problems are people trying to solve? What questions do they ask? These conversations are a goldmine for content ideas and opportunities to provide genuine help without a sales pitch.

If you sell running shoes, look for people asking for recommendations on marathon training forums or in runner-focused Facebook Groups. Don't jump in with a link to your product. Instead, offer genuine advice on picking a shoe, and then, if appropriate, mention your product as one possible solution.

Manage Your Community Proactively

Your comment sections and DMs are a direct line to your customers and potential buyers. Treat them with care:

  • Respond to everything: Answer every question, thank people for every compliment, and address every concern (even the negative ones). A thoughtful response can turn a skeptic into a supporter.
  • Engage beyond your own page: Don't just sit and wait for comments. Go to the profiles of your followers or related accounts and leave genuine, non-spammy comments. Be a part of the community.
  • Encourage interaction: Your content should be a conversation starter. Use your captions to ask questions, run polls in your Stories, and host Q&A sessions. The more people engage with you, the more invested they become in your brand.

The Art of the Soft Sell (and When to Go Direct)

After you've consistently provided value and built up trust, your audience will be much more receptive to promotional content. Even then, there are tactful ways to introduce the sale that feel natural and helpful rather than aggressive.

Strategic, Shoppable Content

Many platforms have built-in tools that make it easy for users to shop directly from the content they enjoy. Use them!

  • Product Tagging: On Instagram and Facebook, you can tag products directly in your posts and Stories. A user can tap the tag to see the product name and price, and click through to your website to purchase. This creates a frictionless shopping experience.
  • Link in Bio: Since most platforms only give you one clickable link, make it count. Use a link-in-bio tool like Linktree or Carrd to create a simple landing page that directs followers to your top products, latest blog posts, or current promotions.
  • Affiliate and Influencer Marketing: Partner with creators who align with your brand values. When they share your product with their trusted audience, it comes across as a genuine recommendation, not just another ad.

When and How to Sell in DMs

Direct messages are an incredibly powerful sales tool when used correctly. The key is to wait for an invitation. A DM "sale" happens when a follower asks a question about your product, price, or service. This is your chance to provide personalized help, not a copy-pasted pitch. Answer their specific questions, ask follow-up questions to understand their needs better, and then guide them to the best solution for them. This consultative approach builds immense trust and often leads to an immediate conversion.

Create a Smooth Path from Post to Purchase

Every "sales" post should have a clear purpose and a single, obvious next step you want the user to take. This is your Call to Action (CTA). Don't assume people will know what to do next. Tell them precisely.

  • 🚫 Vague CTA: "Check out our new collection."
  • Clear CTA: "Tap the link in our bio to shop the complete Fall Collection now!"


  • 🚫 Vague CTA: "DM for details." (This can work for high-ticket items, but can be a barrier for smaller purchases.)
  • Clear CTA: "Love this look? Tap the product tag to see pricing and get yours before it sells out."

Your CTA is a bridge from social media to your website or checkout page. Make sure that bridge is sturdy. The user's experience after the click is just as important as the post itself. Ensure your landing pages are mobile-friendly, load quickly, and make it incredibly easy for someone to complete their purchase.

Final Thoughts

Selling on social media is a marathon, not a sprint. It’s built on the foundation of authentic connections, generous value, and genuine community-building. By shifting your focus from making sales to earning trust, you build a loyal audience that is not only willing to buy from you but is excited to cheer for your success.

Of course, managing the content calendars, community conversations, and performance tracking across all these platforms can quickly become overwhelming. This is exactly why we built Postbase. We wanted a tool that makes it simple to plan your 80/20 content visually, and schedule it all reliably - especially modern formats like Reels and Shorts. Our unified inbox also brings all your comments and DMs into one place, so you can focus on building relationships without constantly switching between apps.

Spencer's spent a decade building products at companies like Buffer, UserTesting, and Bump Health. He's spent years in the weeds of social media management—scheduling posts, analyzing performance, coordinating teams. At Postbase, he's building tools to automate the busywork so you can focus on creating great content.

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