Instagram Tips & Strategies

How to Invite Someone to Collab on Instagram

By Spencer Lanoue
October 31, 2025

Getting a successful Instagram collaboration isn't just about sending a cold DM and hoping for the best, it’s about strategic partnership and genuine connection. Done right, a collab can skyrocket your reach, build your authority, and bring fresh, exciting content to your audience. This guide walks you through the entire process, from finding the right partner to sending a pitch that actually gets a response, and finally, to using the official Collab feature itself.

Why Bother with Collaborations Anyway?

Collaborating on Instagram is one of the most powerful organic growth strategies available. Instead of trying to build an audience from scratch, you tap into someone else’s established community, introducing your brand or profile to a targeted, engaged group of people who are likely to be interested in what you do. It’s a win-win scenario that builds social proof, diversifies your content, and creates authentic connections that both audiences appreciate.

Here’s what a great collaboration delivers:

  • Expanded Reach: Your content appears on your partner’s feed and in front of their followers, instantly exposing you to a brand new audience.
  • Increased Credibility: When another creator co-signs your content, their trust with their audience is transferred to you. It's a powerful endorsement.
  • Fresh Content: Partnering with someone else lets you break out of your usual content style, combining creative energies to produce something unique and exciting for both your audiences.
  • Mutual Growth: A successful collab will drive followers, engagement, and even sales for both parties involved.

Finding the Perfect Collab Match (The 'Who')

The success of your collaboration depends almost entirely on choosing the right partner. The biggest mistake creators make is aiming for anyone with a large follower count. A massive audience means nothing if it’s the wrong audience. Instead, focus on alignment.

Think Complementary, Not Competitive

Look for creators in a similar niche who aren’t direct competitors. For example, a personal trainer could collab with a nutritionist, a graphic designer with a copywriter, or a travel vlogger with a sustainable luggage brand. Your services or content should complement each other, offering combined value to both audiences.

Actionable Steps for Finding Partners:

  • Check your "Suggested for you" list: Instagram's algorithm is pretty good at identifying similar profiles. Browse this list on profiles you already admire in your niche.
  • See who your ideal followers follow: Go to the profiles of your most engaged followers and see which other creators they are following and interacting with.
  • Analyze hashtag hubs: Look through relevant hashtags in your niche. Creators who are consistently posting high-quality content there are clearly active and invested, making them great potential partners.

Look Beyond Follower Count

Vanity metrics can be misleading. A creator could have 100k followers, but terrible engagement. Another might have 10k highly dedicated followers who hang on their every word. You want the second one. Dive into their profile and look for these signs of a healthy community:

  • Engagement Rate: Does the post have a healthy number of likes and comments relative to their follower count? Look for genuine conversations in the comments, not just emojis.
  • Audience Fit: Read through their comments. Do the people engaging with their content seem like the kind of people who would benefit from yours?
  • Content Quality and Consistency: Do they post regularly? Is their content well-produced and aligned with your brand's values and aesthetic? A sloppy or inconsistent feed is a red flag.

The Art of the Outreach: How to Pitch Your Idea

Once you’ve identified a few potential partners, it’s time to reach out. This is where most people get it wrong. A generic, “Hey, wanna collab?” DM is the fastest way to get ignored. Your pitch needs to be personal, professional, and value-driven.

What to Avoid in Your Pitch

  • Generic Openers: "Hi," "Let's collab," or anything that looks like a copy-paste message.
  • Making it All About You: Avoid starting with your follower count or what you want out of the partnership.
  • Vague Ideas: Don't say, "Let's do a Reel together." Have a clear, simple concept ready.
  • Request High-Effort, Low-Reward Actions: Asking them to do a lot of work for a partner with a much smaller audience is a tough sell. Be realistic about the value exchange.

Crafting the Perfect Pitch (DM and Email Templates)

Your goal is to make it incredibly easy for them to say yes. Do the thinking for them. Your pitch should be concise, personalized, and clearly outline the what, why, and what's in it for them.

A Winning Pitch Structure:

  1. The Personal Connection: Start by showing you’re a real follower. Mention a specific post, Reel, or Story you loved. (e.g., "Hi [Name], I loved your recent Reel on time-blocking hacks. That tip about... was brilliant!").
  2. A Quick Introduction: Briefly say who you are and what you do. Keep this to one sentence. (e.g., "I'm [Your Name], and I help online coaches design beautiful, high-converting workbooks.").
  3. The Big Idea (Simplified): Present your collab idea clearly and concisely. Frame it around how it benefits their audience. (e.g., "I had an idea for a joint Reel where we could share '3 Visual Design Mistakes Coaches Make' and '3 Copywriting Fixes for Each' that I think your audience would love.").
  4. The 'WIIFT' (What’s In It For Them): Directly state the value they will get. It might be exposure to your engaged audience, high-quality content they don't have to create from scratch, or a commission. (e.g., "I know my audience of course creators would really value your copywriting expertise.").
  5. The Clear, Low-Effort Call to Action: Don't ask them to jump on a call. Make the next step simple. (e.g., "Would you be open to hearing more? No pressure at all if you're swamped.").

Template: The Instagram DM Pitch

Hi [Creator's Name],

I've been following your work for a while and absolutely loved your recent Reel on [Specific Topic]. The way you explained [Something specific] was so helpful.

I'm [Your Name], and I [Your one-sentence intro].

Since our audiences both consist of [Describe mutual audience archetype], I had an idea for a potential collaboration that I think they'd really enjoy. I was envisioning a joint Reel where you cover [Their part] and I cover [Your Part].

It would be a great way to provide double the value in one video and introduce our communities to each other.

Let me know if this sounds interesting to you. Totally fine if you're too busy, but thought it might be a great fit.

Best,
[Your Name]

Template: The Email Pitch

Subject: Collab Idea: [Your Niche] + [Their Niche]

Hi [Creator's Name],

My name is [Your Name], and I'm the founder of [Your Business/Brand]. I've been a big fan of your work on Instagram for some time - your recent post about [Specific Post] really resonated with me.

I'm reaching out because I see a great deal of synergy between what we do. While you focus on [Their area of expertise], I specialize in [Your area of expertise], and I believe our audiences overlap in their ambition to [Shared Goal].

I have a collaboration idea I'd love to share. I’m thinking of a 2-part Instagram Reel series where we jointly tackle the challenge of [Problem your collab solves].

Part 1 (on your profile): You could share your top 3 tips for [Their topic].
Part 2 (on my profile): I could build on that with my top 3 tips for [My topic].

We'd both get unique, expert content for our grids and introduce our platforms to a highly relevant new audience.

Would this be something you're open to discussing further?

All the best,
[Your Name]
[Your Website/Instagram Link]

A Step-by-Step Guide to Using the Instagram Collab Feature

Once your partner says yes and you’ve created the content, it's time to post it using Instagram’s built-in feature. This ensures the post appears on both of your profiles, sharing the likes, comments, and view count.

For an Instagram Feed Post (Image or Video):

  1. Open Instagram and tap the "+" icon to create a new post as you normally would.
  2. Select your image or video and complete any edits. Tap "Next".
  3. Write out your agreed-upon caption, add hashtags, and tag a location if desired.
  4. Tap on "Tag People".
  5. Select "Invite Collaborator".
  6. Search for your collaborator’s username and select their profile.
  7. Once you've added them, a "Collaborator" tag will appear on the "Tag People" page. You can add more standard tags as well.
  8. Tap "Done" and then "Share." Your partner will receive a notification in their DMs to accept the collaboration request. Once they accept, the post will appear on their profile, too.

For an Instagram Reel:

  1. Tap the "+" icon and select "Reel". Record or upload your video just as you would for a regular Reel.
  2. After editing, proceed to the final sharing screen where you write your caption.
  3. Tap "Tag People".
  4. Just like a feed post, select "Invite Collaborator".
  5. Search for and select your partner’s account.
  6. Finish writing your caption and tap "Share." Your partner will get an invitation to accept the collab, and the Reel will show up on both your profiles once they do.

Quick tip: The creator who originally posts the content is the only one who can edit or delete it. Communicate with your partner beforehand about who will be responsible for hitting "Share".

Final Thoughts

Landing your first Instagram collaboration is a milestone. It proves that you can create value, connect with peers, and build a brand that others want to associate with. The key is to start with a thoughtful approach: find partners where a genuine connection exists, craft a pitch that respects their time and offers real value, and execute the campaign professionally.

Once that collaboration is a go, the important work of planning and executing begins. We built Postbase for exactly this part of the process. Instead of managing your collaboration content through messy spreadsheets and disconnected DMs, we made a simple visual calendar where you can plan all your posts - including for collabs - weeks in advance. You can prepare and schedule the content in one place, customize it for every platform you want to promote it on, and then manage all the comments and DMs from one unified inbox once it goes live. That way, you can focus on building relationships, not fighting with your tools.

Spencer's spent a decade building products at companies like Buffer, UserTesting, and Bump Health. He's spent years in the weeds of social media management—scheduling posts, analyzing performance, coordinating teams. At Postbase, he's building tools to automate the busywork so you can focus on creating great content.

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