Influencers Tips & Strategies

How to Contact an Influencer

By Spencer Lanoue
October 31, 2025

Sending that first message to an influencer can feel like knocking on a celebrity's door, but it's a skill you can master with the right approach. Ditching generic templates and focusing on genuine connection is the secret to building partnerships that actually drive results. This guide will walk you through every step, from finding the right creators to crafting a pitch email they'll actually want to open and reply to.

Before You Click 'Send': The Essential Prep Work

In influencer marketing, 80% of your success happens before you ever draft an email. Rushing this stage is a one-way ticket to getting ignored. Taking the time to build a strong foundation ensures you’re contacting the right person for the right reasons with the right offer.

Step 1: Define Your Goal and Your Offer

Why do you want to partner with an influencer in the first place? Your answer changes everything. Get crystal clear on your primary objective:

  • Brand Awareness: Are you a new brand trying to get your name out there? You might focus on influencers with a large, engaged audience who can introduce you to new people.
  • Sales &, Conversions: Are you trying to sell a specific product? You'll want influencers whose audience trusts their recommendations and might look at metrics like clicks and conversion rates. An affiliate partnership could work well here.
  • Content Generation: Do you just need high-quality, authentic user-generated content (UGC) for your own social channels and ads? Your focus might be on micro-influencers with smaller followings but fantastic creative skills.

Once you know your goal, outline your offer. What can you provide in exchange for their work? Be realistic. Most professional creators aren't going to spend hours creating content just for a free t-shirt. Your offer can be:

  • Product Gifting: Best for nano-influencers (1k-10k followers) who are just starting out and genuinely love your product. It’s a low-risk way to test the waters.
  • Affiliate Commission: A great performance-based option. The influencer earns a percentage of every sale they drive through a unique code or link.
  • Flat-Fee Payment: The most common model for micro-influencers and up. You pay a set fee for specific deliverables (e.g., one Reel, four Stories).
  • A Hybrid Model: A combination of a payment, free product, and/or an affiliate commission can be a very attractive package.

Step 2: Find the Right Influencers (Not Just the Biggest Ones)

Bigger isn't always better. An influencer with 500,000 followers is useless to you if their audience isn't your target customer. Focus on relevance and engagement over pure follower count.

Where to Look:

  • Hashtag Research: Search for specific, niche hashtags related to your business (e.g., #torontoveganfood instead of just #food). See who is creating top-performing content under those tags.
  • Audience Deep-Dive: Who do your ideal customers already follow? Check your own followers list on Instagram and see which creators pop up frequently.
  • Competitor Analysis: Look at which influencers your competitors or adjacent brands are working with. Don't blatantly copy them, but use their choices as a starting point for your own research. Tools like Instagram’s “Paid partnership” label make this easy to spot.
  • Platform Search: Use keywords directly in the search bars of platforms like TikTok, YouTube, and Instagram. If you sell hiking gear, search for "best hiking trails California" on YouTube and see which creators appear.

Step 3: Vet Your Shortlist Like a Detective

Once you have a list of potential partners, it’s time to vet them thoroughly. A quick glance at their profile isn't enough. You're looking for signs of a healthy, authentic community and a true brand fit.

Checklist for Vetting:

  • Alignment &, Authenticity: Do their values and aesthetic align with your brand? Read their captions, watch their videos. Do they seem genuine? If you’re a sustainable brand, partnering with a fast-fashion hauler will confuse and alienate both of your audiences.
  • Engagement Rate: This is more important than followers. A high engagement rate (likes, comments, shares, saves relative to follower count) signals a loyal and active community. A simple formula is: (Total Likes + Total Comments) / Follower Count * 100. For Instagram, anything over 2-3% is generally considered good.
  • Comment Quality: Don't just look at the number of comments, read them. Are they authentic conversations? Or are they full of spam, fire emojis, and comments from obvious bots? Real engagement involves genuine questions and dialogue.
  • Audience Demographics: Does their content attract your target audience? An influencer might have a media kit with this information. If not, you can often get a good sense from the people commenting on their posts and the overall vibe of their content.

The Approach: How to Make First Contact the Right Way

Your goal is to be a welcome partner, not another piece of spam in their inbox. This starts with showing genuine interest long before you ever ask for anything.

The "Warm-Up" Phase: Get on Their Radar Organically

Never send a cold pitch. Imagine a stranger walking up to you on the street and asking for a big favor - it’s destined to fail. Spend one to two weeks warming them up first. You want your name to look familiar when your email or DM finally lands.

  • Follow them on their primary social media platform.
  • Engage genuinely. Like their content. Leave thoughtful comments that are more than just "Great post!" Reference something specific you enjoyed about their photo or video. "I love how you styled that blue jacket! It perfectly picks up the colors in the background."
  • Share their work. If they post something that genuinely resonates with your brand, share it to your Stories and tag them. It’s a low-pressure way to show appreciation.

This simple process proves you're a real fan of their work, not just a brand blindly sending mass emails.

Crafting the Perfect Pitch Email (or DM)

After you’ve warmed up the relationship, it’s time to make your pitch. Email is almost always preferred for professional inquiries, as it’s easier to track and seems more official. Many influencers list a business email in their bio for this purpose. If they don't, a polite and concise DM is your next best option.

Your Pitch Must Contain These 5 Key Elements:

1. A Clear & Professional Subject Line

The subject line determines whether your email even gets opened. Be direct and avoid spammy phrasing. Good examples include:

  • Brand Partnership Idea: [Your Brand Name] x [Influencer's Name]
  • Collaboration Inquiry from [Your Sustainable Skincare Brand]
  • Potential Partnership - [Your Brand Name]

2. Personalized Opening Line

This is where your research pays off. Immediately prove this isn't a copy-and-pasted template. Reference something specific and recent from their content.

Example: "Hi [Influencer Name], I'm a big fan of your Sunday morning recipe series on TikTok - I made your pumpkin spice pancakes last weekend, and they were incredible!"

3. The "Why You" and "Why Us" Introduction

Briefly connect the dots. Acknowledge why you believe they specifically are a great fit for your brand and vice versa. It shows you respect their personal brand and alignment.

Example: "I'm reaching out from Terra Coffee, a small-batch coffee roaster focused on sustainable sourcing. The way you talk about supporting small, ethical businesses really resonates with our mission, and we thought your audience would appreciate our story."

4. The Clear & Concise "Ask"

Now, get straight to the point. What are you proposing? Be as clear as possible about the campaign idea without overwhelming them with rules and restrictions.

Example: "We'd love to partner with you for the launch of our new holiday blend. We’re envisioning 1 Instagram Reel and 3 Stories showing how you incorporate our coffee into your cozy holiday morning routine. In return for the partnership, we can offer [your compensation package - e.g., $XXX compensation plus a product bundle]."

5. The Simple Call to Action (CTA)

End your email by making it easy for them to take the next step. Don't be demanding, keep it conversational.

Example: "If this sounds like a potential fit, let me know! I'm happy to share more details about the product and campaign brief. Thanks for your time and for all the great content you create."

Putting It All Together: A Pitch Email Template You Can Adapt


Subject: Collaboration Inquiry: Terra Coffee x Jane Smith

Hi Jane,

My name is Sarah, and I'm the founder of Terra Coffee. I'm a huge fan of your work, especially your focus on slow living and thoughtful routines - your recent video on curating a cozy reading nook was fantastic.

I'm reaching out today because I see a great alignment between your content and our mission. At Terra Coffee, we ethically source our beans from small-scale farms, and we thought your audience would connect with the stories behind our blends.

We are launching a new holiday blend next month and would love to partner with you to get the word out. The partnership would involve creating one Instagram Reel and three Stories showcasing how you would brew Terra Coffee as part of your perfect festive morning.

For this collaboration, we can offer compensation of [$XXX] and a complete holiday bundle with our new coffee and some custom mugs.

Let me know if this sounds interesting, and I can send over a more detailed brief.

Thanks so much for your time!

Best,
Sarah @ Terra Coffee

The Follow-Up and Next Steps

What if you send the perfect email and hear nothing but crickets? Don’t panic. Influencers are busy people running their own businesses, and their inboxes are often chaotic.

How and When to Follow Up

If you don't hear back after 5-7 business days, send a single, polite follow-up. Keep it short and sweet. Simply reply to your original email and say:

"Hi Jane, just wanted to gently bump this in your inbox in case you missed it. Let me know if you would be open to a potential partnership. Thanks!"

If you don’t hear back after that, it's time to respectfully move on. Constant follow-ups will only hurt your brand’s reputation. A "no" or no response isn't a failure - it's just a sign that it wasn't the right fit at this time. Keep the relationship positive, continue engaging with their content when it makes sense, and you can always try again in 6-12 months when your brand or their focus might have changed.

Final Thoughts

Contacting an influencer successfully is a game of personalization and relationship-building, not a numbers game. By investing time in research, genuine engagement, and a crafted pitch that offers mutual value, you move from being just another brand in their inbox to being a partner they're excited to work with.

Once you start nurturing these awesome influencer relationships, keeping your overarching social media strategy organized is even more important. At Postbase, we designed our visual content calendar so you can see your entire schedule at a glance, allowing you to easily map out where partner content fits alongside your own campaigns. It helps you stay consistent across all your platforms without drowning in spreadsheets.

Spencer's spent a decade building products at companies like Buffer, UserTesting, and Bump Health. He's spent years in the weeds of social media management—scheduling posts, analyzing performance, coordinating teams. At Postbase, he's building tools to automate the busywork so you can focus on creating great content.

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